What???

So I get a call from a man who was looking at our "For Rent" sign at the house. When inquiring about renting our place he asked how we screen potential renters, to which I explained we use a company that does credit, criminal and tenant history checks. He proceeds to tell me that he has two, count them two warrants out for evictions in the place he is in now. That he has had trouble finding a place (no kidding) and needed extra time to move out..hence the warrants. Are you freaking kidding me????
He was concerned about his credit score (not the warrants?) so I explained that the company we use has their own system and lets us know if an applicant has a positive or negative score based on a number of factors. And if he'd like and application, we'd be more than happy to meet him to show the property. I guess having his credit score pulled was worrisome enough and he hung up. Warrants, really???

Ella and I went to Moe's with Amy and Nolan today. It was a nice reprieve from all the stress with the house. It's been forever since I've seen her and her new Honda Pilot is wonderfully spacious! I can't wait to get an SUV or minivan when we get back from Hawaii. Nolan and Ella were so good and it was such a treat to swap baby stories with Amy. We all headed over to Babies R Us for some much needed supplies. I bought Ella a booster seat with a tray for feeding. It's so much better than her carseat we've been feeding her in.

Bad to Worse

Today was a test in patience and stress management. The whole situation with the house is proving to be the most frustrating and stressful thing I've ever had to deal with. We met with an investment company at the house today and we were offered our mortgage plus $1000. It was a sad realization that the house had come to that but we were ready to bite the bullet. When we talked to our realtor we learned that we still owed her 3% even though the house hasn't had an ounce of activity and we were "giving" the house away to an investment company as a last resort. This was bad. We sell the house and end up $3400 out of pocket.

Just as we figure we'd cash in some investments and wipe our hands clean, the investment company calls and retracts the offer. Turns out the market is such that they can't guarantee themselves a quick resale and the equity they would have earned in their low offer, would end up being used while they tried to sell it. Basically the same situation we're in. It gets worse...we also get a call about renting it and hustle our butts over to meet the potential renter ...who, as our luck would have it, never shows up!

We have one week to make some serious moves. We had the realtor drop the price of the house as low as possible in the hope we get some interest in it. We have also gotten information about refinancing which would give us a little money as a safety net while we find a renter. At this point I am so ready to say forget the house, forclose on it, and live the rest of Ron's career in military housing. By the time he retired, we'd have built our credit back up. Realistically, we will continue to look for a renter and put it back up for sale next year, when the market looks better. I am mentally exhausted from all the stress. At least it's a learning experience, we will never again buy a house as long as we have to move with the military.

On a positive note, Ella is doing well and I might even have felt the beginnings of a bump in her gums that may actually be a tooth trying to come through. How exciting for her! In the mess of all this house business, Ella, Ron and I are doing great and are more in love with our family each day. Say a little prayer for us that the house falls into place too.

Weekend Walk

This weekend we went to Arabia Mountain. It's close to the house and reminds me of the Galloping Goose Trail in Victoria, It's paved and goes through some beautiful woods, open farmland and the "mountain" part is flat rock that you can hike over. We did 5 miles yesterday and 2.5 today. We are going to try and do it everyday and hopefully when we leave for Hawaii, we're up to 10 miles. It's a goal I need to work on as I'm soooo out of shape right now.

We met a potential renter at the house yesterday. She seems reliable and has a good steady job as a teacher. We're also meeting the investment company tomorrow to see what (if anything) they offer us. Keep your fingers crossed we get this house situation sorted out! Ironically, we paid $49.99 to list our house for rent in the online newspaper, but all the calls have come from our $0.99 "For Rent" sign in the yard. Go figure!

Six Month Check-Up

Today was Ella's six month check-up with Dr. Ahn. We are really going to miss her, she is a wonderful doctor! Ella is 15 lbs. 2 oz and still in the 25th percentile for her weight. However, like her Daddy she is going to be tall...she sprouted to a whopping 27 inches which puts her in the 95th percentile. At this rate, Dr. Ahn says she could be 5'9-5'10. Long and lean like Ron, woo-hoo!

We also got the green light for food (though we've been eating baby food for the past two and a half weeks) anything we're eating that we can mash is okay for her. How fun! And a sippy cup to boot! Fun, fun, fun!!!!!!


I love fall clothes and now that the mornings are just a bit on the cool side, we get to wear them for about 5 minutes until it warms back up and the a/c goes on. Oh well, at least we can have fun with all the outfits before we go to Hawaii. Which, by the way, is not on the 11th, but now on the 27th of October. Aghhh, the military! But the good news is, we'll be here to cheer when Dawn crosses the finish line for her 3-Day walk for breast cancer. The plane tickets are on their way, now if we can just do something about this house!

Ella At Six Months

These are the portraits we had done last Friday for Ella's 1/2 Birthday.....

Sell This House!!!!

So as you all know, we leave in about if not less than 3 weeks. We are still stuck with our house. Renting it seems daunting and selling it, virtually impossible. We talked about it tonight and it looks like we might have to bite the bullet and see if an investing group will buy it. They won't pay us anything near what it's worth but as long as we can get the mortgage paid off and get it off our hands, it just might be the best thing. It's sad that we won't get any equity out of it but it will break us if we have to pay a mortgage in addition to living in Hawaii...we just can't do it. Sigh, it's been a stressful couple of months. On a positive note, we haven't really actually been paying a mortgage as the military gives us a housing allowance. So we are looking at it as not really loosing anything but getting rid of a burden. Who the heck knows what we'll do. Lots of people have been inquiring about the rental, maybe that will pan out.

Ella and I once again ran around doing errands and did some more shopping. She's exhausted! I'm watching Survivor and blogging while waiting for her to burn some energy (Ron's had her all hyped up). True to form, it's 8:28 on the dot and when I looked at her on the couch, she's out! I took this pic of her, she's all leaned over oblivious to everything around her. Goodnight!

Thank You!

Dear Will and Amy,

Thank you so much for the Moe's gift card. I am going to miss going to Moe's as they don't have any in Hawaii :( I'm going to make the most of it and go to Moe's as much as I can before we leave. Thank you again!!!! (now Ron has to take me!)

Tracey, Ron and Ella.

Give Me An "E"...

Here is Ella, our little flexible gymnast. She's always got her leg up, foot in hand or mouth and playing with whatever is in reach. Cheerleader potential. So active, yet won't roll over! I've been leaving her on her belly or back on the bed and she'll just have to figure it out. (Erin - she loves the jeans and I'm so glad she fits them now!!! They're my favorite!)

I put the house on Craig's List for rent and we've already gotten inquiries. I'm going to advertise in the paper and get it on a few more websites. Come on renters! We had someone we know ask our agent about it but we know enough to know he wouldn't be a reliable tenant... how can you not pay your rent in your last place, and then ask to rent ours! Crazy. Needless to say, our agent turned him down. We were actually out for lunch with our agent and her husband, who works with Ron. We may have them manage our property while we're away but if not, we have a company we can hire.

This week was the first time I used eBay. I've browsed through and have an account but never had anything to sell. I bought a winter wedding cape for our wedding but as freaky Georgia weather would have it, it was warm that January. The wedding cape has been in my closet ever since but the pack and upcoming move has motivated me to sell it on eBay. I paid $125 and just sold it today for $137.50! I am soooo loving eBay right now and will start on my Hanji (Korean art) when I get to Hawaii. It's seems to be a great place to sell my art and I'd rather be at home being creative with Ella than working some part time job. A long-term goal would be to start my own business selling my art. Here is the lamp I designed and made from paper. Look for more on eBay soon - don't worry, you know I'll send the link :)

Blog Security

So my friend, Amy made her blog private which means only those she's invited and who sign in can view it. My blog is public which means anyone surfing the net can find it and leave comments. Amy had some stranger leave a nasty comment on hers and she decided to only allow friends and family to see it.

I'm debating on making mine private. I would send out emails to everyone to invite you to view it. It would mean creating a Goggle account and signing in with a password everytime. It's much safer and that way I could be sure only friends and family are reading about our life. I will play it by ear and see how it goes. It really sucks that a few bad apples can ruin such a great thing.

On a better note, Ella and I did some errands and went shopping today. I cancelled my car registration but it was a bit of an ordeal. After standing in line for 25 minutes and listening to the lady in front of me baby talk to Ella the whole time, I was told I would have to fill out a form and get it notarized by the guy at across the hall. Luckily, Ella was flirting with him when we first entered and he notarized the form and asked the police officer on duty to take me back to the window. I'm learning that babies are as good as pregnant bellies when it comes to getting help!

We went shopping and I bought a ton of cute summer shirts and a couple pairs of shorts that were on sale for $6.99! End of season sales are coming in so handy for my Hawaii wardrobe!

Lazy Weekend

This weekend Ron had to work, his last weekend at this job. I can't believe it but we leave in about 3 and a half weeks! Ella and I stayed around the house most of the weekend. Grandma and Grandpa are on a cruise so it was so quiet. The house is big and we are usually hanging out in the basement.

Today, after Uncle Joey left for the day, I had a shower while Ella napped. When I got dressed, I thought I heard someone walking around upstairs. I got Ella up from her nap and left out the back door and called Ron on his cell phone. After a few minutes, I went around to the front and checked it out. Ron was going to come home but as I went through the front door, all was clear. It's just a big house and the air conditioning had kicked in and the change in temperature caused the walls and floor to contract. I was freaked out at first, but then felt kinda stupid. All I could think of were the horror movies where the person goes to see what the noise is and then, bam, they're dead. Joey and Ron thought it was funny but I say better safe than sorry. From now on the alarm will be on.

Tonight I gave Ella a bath in the bathroom sink. The first time and the last time as she's too big for it and likes to play with the taps...I spent more time making sure she didn't turn the hot water on herself. This week I hope to start looking for a renter. Wish us luck!!!