




Welcome to our life as we transition to a new chapter with our little girl. Ella continues to amaze us and we count our blessings every day! The future is unknown but we are excited about all its possibilities.
Where will we go?
Who knows, we're just enjoying the ride for now...
* In a Walmart parking lot she randomly and aggressively yelled out, "HEY BUDDY!" This was to no one in particular, but there happened to be a pickup truck full of construction workers nearby...Three has been a trying year, two has nothing on a 3 year old! But now that we are weeks away from her fourth birthday, I've seen a tremendous change for the better. Her fits are few and far between and in order to keep her in line I threaten to never do things again if she can't "act like a lady." At the playground, she would often throw tantrums (as all toddlers do) when it was time to leave. Now, we have a little talk before about being a big girl and how if she can't act right, we won't be coming back. Now, I give her a 5 minute heads up that it will soon be time to go, and when it is time to leave, she tells her friends, "Bye friends, see you next time!" and skips back to me... it's the best!
* When we ask her to eat her dinner, if it's something she doesn't want (veggies in particular) she replies, "No thank you. I don't like them. I'll like them when I'm older."
* Yesterday. Everything is yesterday. "I saw it yesterday." "I wore it yesterday." "I went there yesterday."... it could have been last week but in her time frame, if it already happened, it happened...yesterday :)
* She is married to Emmi. Emmi is her husband. She'll talk about how I married Daddy, and when she takes notice of my wedding ring, she understands I am married to her Daddy. One morning, she looked at my ring, looked at her hand and declared with woeful drama, "Oh no! Where's my ring? I lost it? Emmi didn't give me a ring. Mommy, I'm married to Emmi but he doesn't give me a ring yet." (Christina, she misses Emmi sooooo much!)
* Chores. We have introduced chores to Ella, the little mommy. She mimics me in so many ways and I often find her engaging household "chores" that usually involve more cleanup on my part in the end. The other day she took her bath towel, soaked it in the sink and then used it to wipe the bathroom mirror...water everywhere. So now, she is responsible for making her bed in the morning and doing her dishes. I wash her dishes and she dries them and puts them away. We have very little cupboard space so I have some baskets on a shelf which also makes it easy for her to set the table too :)
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“The test of an adventure is that when you’re in the midst of it, you say to yourself, ‘Oh, now I’ve got myself into an awful mess; I wish I were sitting quietly at home.’
And the sign that something’s wrong is when you’re sitting quietly at home wishing you were out having lots of adventure.”
- Thorton Wilder -
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the things you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade wind in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover. "
- Mark Twain -
Hell is a world where you have no home. And even though I was in heaven something drew me back to my home.
I can’t put into words the things I've seen the places I’ve been or what it all means.
Because its not so much what you look at
But when you look, what you see
And I see that my eyes are the eyes of the world
and in my eyes
I AM.
- anonymous -